Friday, October 23, 2009

I Feel Like A Failure Because My Child Is Bad

Excitement exploded when Bailey drove an ice blue, Honda Civic, with chrome spinner wheel. The car handles shaved and had geometric shapes designs pursued on both sides of the car in silver and black. The sound that came from the loudspeakers filled the air with a rhythmic beat palpitations bass.

Fitted with a push of a button near the gear shift, the car began to show his brand new custom hydraulics. The boys and girls cried and asked permission to BaileyYou turn off the music and more to show. He gladly agreed and grabbed him by the remote control to change the CD to an even better bass melody.

This was a typical Saturday night, with youths and young adults, car clubs, show meeting to present their latest accessories. It also brought gangs, drugs and alcohol, that members who accompanied the party as hard. The air flowed with foul language and talks about the graphic sexual exploitation.

The crowd was wearing colors that were symbols of gangsand most wore tattoos, piercings and spiked hair with different colors. Bailey was not like the group because he does not talk about the curse, or even a dirty girl. He was dressed in the latest fashion and he loved the hot cars, but he had also increased with Christian discipline and moral values.

At sixteen, all spoken Bailey ever thought about was how he save his own dream car. He talked about the money that would make him and the club would start him. Since theYears passed, and Bailey was his dream to the world of cars he loved so well, began to change it.

It was not that Bailey had his faith in God, but the people he surrounded himself with began to change the impact on how he deals with his life. He was a man who is now and what he could do what he wanted and he did not live through his life like his parents. He wanted only the "in crowd."

He was ungrateful and full of pride to his parents. He loved them only if theygave him what he wanted. His only motivation was to go to parties and to do what she said kidding. He began having sex with his girlfriend and the whole night. He became violent and verbally abusive to his parents. He began to drink and he got into fights. Finally, his girlfriend became pregnant.

Today, the state of our world has many stories like Bailey's generated. Most parents of rebellious children have no idea how a child who has taken an unexpected twist gripfor the worse. You can tell countless stories of the battles for curfews, and they fought about the friends they wanted to hang out with. These are parents who tried to teach her child to make right decisions, I now feel like failures. They even have the feeling that God has abandoned them!

How can this happen that the parents are well and love? Parents who took her child to church, taught him to pray and practice their religious faith? Like a child who was given the right moral canTeaching prove that bad? More importantly, how can I fix it my child?

The first thing a parent needs to understand is the goal of our world. When Adam ate the apple he brought sin into the world. Suddenly, our world is no longer perfect, and all the people were players in a world game that teaches them the difference between right and wrong.

Satan came into the world to do harm to people, and God struck back by giving us the rules to try to play the Game of Life. God gaveus the Ten Commandments, and later he sent his Son as the Savior of the world.

The laws condemned sinful nature, but the death of Jesus on the cross changed the rules of the game of life by introducing the world to the concept of faith and grace. Grace makes it possible to take God's children to the wrong path in life. For this reason, there are good, Christian teens who are lured and trapped by the pleasure of sex. For this reason, Christian youths bad decisions that they makeAssign. More importantly, for this reason it is easy to make mistakes if we are all players in a complex multi-faceted world game.

Romans 11: 32: "For God has all men prisoners of disobedience, so that he grace, she could show everyone."

It is very important to understand this verse to Christian parents. If you live in a poor world, your children will be tempted, and often they are the test by the temptation. If we understand our world, thenwe will allow our children without judging them too hard to make mistakes too. For they are destined to fail many tests in life. God takes our mistakes and shows why this kind of behavior by the trials they meet, if it is a wrong way, destructive.

Romans 11: 33-36, "How great are God's riches, how deep are his wisdom and knowledge, anyone who can explain his decisions? Who can understand his ways and how does the Scripture says," Who knows the spirit of the Lord? Who is able to givehim advice? Anyone who has anything to him, so he paid it back? "

For all things were created through him and all things were made by him and for him. God be the glory forever! Amen. "

God uses evil happening in the world to teach his children. Sometimes a child will indulge in sin for a short time and for others it will take a lifetime for them to find out what wrong they do. As parents, we must never cease to love our child. We must forgivetheir misdeeds and pray for God's will be done in their lives. I know this is not easy to make, but you must protect the interest of the child.

I know what it is, you want your child is instructed by the Scriptures, but when they reach a certain age you can not do what is right. You can point them to God, the push-to-that they turn away completely from God!

As a parent it is your Christian duty to never give up your child! This is the reason why you mustDear grandson that was born out of lust. This is why you must not judge your son or daughter because they find out they raise their own children, why they need God's influence in their lives. God is not a wimp! He will not allow his children to go astray for ever, but in his time, he is again!

Many parents, churches and society view of rebellion as unforgivable. Hair Color tattoos and body piercing can be upset some people, but his or her outwardAppearance is not as important as what is in the heart. They are tested just like your child is tested. Do not miss the test of parents and give up! You must place your trust in God and believe that it has on your child's best interest in mind, even if you think your child is too ill to be saved.

If you live in a world where games are all that's happening in the world, you learn! This is the reason why there are examples of the evil. This is the reason why it impacts on theSin. Sin creates evil in the hearts of the people and because people are weak in their human nature, they fail many tests.

Anyone with a sexually transmitted disease from the lifestyle they had was sent out on Teen Pregnancy, has taught the branch that sex without thinking about the responsibility that goes with it. When a friend dies from driving drunk or high up on the latest drug to get those affected by this event. Who you hang with is an example ofeither good or bad and what happens if you do not control how much you're in your body.

We are in a world in which parents need teaching on how the game of life is played smart. You must keep the principles in God, without thought of your child's head. You have to love unconditionally, and to take the struggles with your child one at a time. Let the problems of the past and love. Above all, you must pray and ask God every day to protect your childSatan.

Satan is your child's biggest enemy. He will try your child over and over and over again to indulge. Pray the Lord's Prayer every day and listen to the words and you will understand that Jesus's parents were just the right words to combat Satan's attacks on her family.

Bailey spent many years of his life rebelling against those who loved him most. His parents loved him anyway. She stood by him. They prayed for him and over time God has been a strong influence onBailey's life again, because his parents refused to him.



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